How to Get Your Wife to Let You Buy a Boat

Published November 25th, 2019 by Bernardo

For some people, finances are far from the biggest obstacle that prevents them from buying the boat of their dreams. Often, people are met with resistance from inside their own families. This isn’t about bashing family members who don’t understand why boats are such a worthy investment (yet). On the contrary, we’d like to share some of the most useful tips that help family members see the light and agree to buy a new boat with shared finances.

 

1 – Show, Don’t Tell

When did you first realize how much you’d love to have a boat? It probably wasn’t because someone told you that going out on the water is a nice way to spend the afternoon. An appreciation for the open water normally comes from experiences that you remember and cherish. Share those experiences with your spouse and family, and they’ll quickly realize what they’re missing.

To start, just rent a boat for a day. Bring a lunch, perhaps a cooler of drinks, and some nice music. Consider activities like water sports, fishing, or swimming. Take care of the planning all by yourself and make sure everyone has a blast. This will make it much easier for you to sell the idea that doing this more often could be fun for everyone involved.

 

2 – Find the Right Time

Relationships are all about the give and take. If you’re already in the dog house, it’s probably not a great idea to ask for a big favor (like the permission to buy a new boat). On the contrary, most aspiring boat owners can improve their chances of a successful conversation by starting the conversation at the right time. If you’ve just made sacrifices to ensure that everyone else in the family gets what they want, they’ll be more likely to return the favor.

 

3 – Don’t Make It All About Yourself

Maybe you want a boat so you can take solo fishing trips on Saturday mornings, but that isn’t exactly a big draw to anyone else. Instead, think about how the boat can enhance the lives of everyone involved. Maybe you can take your in-laws out for a dinner cruise when they visit or use your boat as a new venue for hosting friends and family. Think about what your family wants and how a new boat can help them enjoy life more.

 

4 – Explain the Boat Buying Guide

One of the biggest objections some people have is financing a boat. The idea of taking on a new boat loan is daunting, but it’s surprisingly easy when you trust the right lender. Talk to a local expert in South Florida boat sales, and they’ll connect you with all the best financing options. When you find the best possible value for your budget, it’s easy to see how each and every monthly payment is completely worth it.

 

Boats for Sale

Here at Nautical Ventures, we’re all boat enthusiasts. New or used, from kayaks to luxury yachts, we love to board any vessel that will enable a day on the water. When you shop with us, you can take advantage of years of experience that will help you (and the rest of your family) feel confident that you’re making the right decision. Stop by one of our locations in South Florida to see your options for yourself, or contact us today to learn more.

We look forward to making this experience one you’ll remember fondly for the rest of your life.

 

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